“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.” Luke 15:9-17
On Saturday I had the privilege of marrying my first couple at Noddfa. As you can imagine, I was incredibly nervous throughout. This was their special day, one that they would remember for the rest of their lives and I did not want to put a foot wrong.
The couple had come to me earlier in the year and was surprised to hear that as a church we would simply accept a donation for the wedding, there was no set fee (outside of the organist and registrar). Without the risk of sounding cynical, I understand that other denominations make a living from such a ceremony. But for me, I see it as an opportunity to reach out to the couple regularly, to share the Gospel with them and discuss the Biblical principles of marriage.The couple regularly attended services on the lead up – and we pray they continue to do so.
The other huge opportunity from the wedding was of course with the invited guests.
Over seventy people were invited from the community, most had never stepped foot in Noddfa before, and now know where we are and have now all heard the Gospel. Praise God!
The service was traditional, short and simple, the message afterwards unashamedly evangelistic and (Praise God) it got them thinking! (Whether they remember it post celebration is another thing!)
After a few pleasantries and a laugh, I asked them all quite directly why is church now reserved only for the special occasions? “Hatched, Matched and Dispatched” Is it because you see church simply as a tradition? Or is it because you believe that God does not exist?
What makes people believe that God does not exist? Well the common and most obvious answer is because you can’t see Him, touch Him, or scientifically measure Him. This is why people choose to relegate His church to just one visit a year?
Unsurprisingly the majority at the wedding acknowledged this to be their viewpoint.
I believe this is the common thought of many throughout our Valley, and I argue this stance is simply illogical. Especially when those who maintain such thinking are quite happy to join us at a wedding ceremony without argument. As a wedding is a time to see two people contradict nature and give themselves to eachother for the rest of their lives. “In sickness and in health, until death do they part.” The entire ceremony is a symbol of love! Love, Love, Love!
Love (like God) can’t be scientifically measured; love can’t be seen or touched. Yet none of our visitors doubt that love exists! If they did, why bother to come?
By the same logic that our guests judge the unlikelihood of God’s existence, they would have to dispute the very thing that they had come to celebrate! Love! Can you see the double standards in the logic?
So, if you can accept love as a reality, without being able to see it, or measure it. Why then do you doubt the reality of our loving God?
God is love! Like Love, He can’t be seen, He can’t be measured! But yes, He is real! Without Him, weddings would not happen, we would have no propensity to love and we would live like the rest of nature, without morality and in absolute chaos.
Just like the wedding day was a physical representation of the love that cannot be seen or measured! This church lives by God’s commands as a physical representation of what you cannot see or measure. So, if you accept love, I argue, you must then by the same logic accept God.
The comparisons do not stop there! Like God, love is not of this world, because Love is from God! Love is unselfish! Love, loves in times of sickness and in times of poverty and at times of sadness and death. Love stays with you through the tough times. Love stays with you long after the looks fade! (I am living proof of this).
God is real and because we are created in His image we have a propensity to love!
Jesus is love, Jesus is our example!
In love, God left the glories of Heaven, to be born a babe, not in a palace, but in a stable. In love God Himself took on flesh in the historical person of Jesus and lived a life of poverty. In love God came low, to be rejected by the world, (just as He is today), He was mocked (just as He is today), He was ignored (just as He is today), He was dismissed (just as He is today), He was beaten and eventually nailed to a cross where He slowly died in the most horrific way in the heat of middle east Why? So that come the day of judgement, those who He loves, those who He has chosen, who know Him as Lord and Saviour, and are obedient to Him, will not face judgement.
This is what we came to celebrate together! That in a cursed world, of wars, of social deprivation, of economic turmoil, of death and tragedy, by God’s Grace we still have people that reject the ways of nature, and do not do whatever their selfish genes tell them to do. Instead they sacrificially give themselves to each other just as Jesus gave Himself for us..
Just like God, Love is real and it contradicts everything that this world is teaching you!
Rejoice today.Thanking God, that in His Son, Jesus Christ, we have the ultimate source of Love, that His death on the cross is sufficient to pay for the Sins of those who know Him, and that all that love Him can defeat the curse of this world and live in Love.